Reason 1: Revealing Their False Self
You are aware of how narcissists spend so much energy in keeping their tidily presented false face intact. They stage events, weave lies in an attempt to control, and use individuals to continue keeping up the act. What about you? You were put into their universe as the individual who would puncture everything. Your true self, your heart’s capacity to love without condition, and your emotional intelligence presented a stark contrast to their performance.
With ease, you pierced the emptiness under their performance. Your presence intimidated their artificial self since genuine recognizes genuine, and pretence cannot be sustained with authenticity for long.
While you were working as their karmic mirror, they were also working as your agent of true self-realization. Their efforts to diminish your light through belittling and devaluing you pushed you toward finding self-endorsement yourself. Whenever they tried to get you to feel that you were too much, too sensitive, or too demanding, you were being pushed in the direction of realizing your true value.
The fact that the narcissist did not value your true self made it the same thing that taught you to value it for yourself. Their withholding of your emotional needs conditioned you to become your emotional caretaker. Their inability to see your worth forced you to find it for yourself. As much as you were their karma, revealing their false self, so were they your catalyst for revealing your true self. It was a spiritual lesson.
But don’t get confused: you don’t so much have to pedestal that narcissist and bow down to their ego. They’re not a nice individual or a saint in disguise. That is not what I am saying to you. What I am saying to you is that this is why you had what you had and what the true purpose of it all was. Something had to happen in your life to awaken you and make you realize that you are worthy.
When you experience that horrible thing with a narcissist, you realize that, at last, no, you do not deserve that. You do not deserve to be abused. You must learn to love yourself. You must discover yourself, and you must experience the homecoming process. That is what they unknowingly started by dating such a poisonous individual.
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