Number 3: Your silence speaks volumes
Narcissists do not fear conflict; they feed on it. They love it when you fight, you beg, cry, and plead for them to see you. Every tear you shed, every time you try to explain how they hurt you, every night you stay up hoping they will understand, they saw it, they see it. They just do not care, because as long as you are reacting, they know they still have power. Your pain gives them proof that they matter, but silence hits differently. Silence tells them they are irrelevant. It tells them they no longer have access to your mind, to your emotions, to your body, to any part of you.
You’re not chasing them anymore. You’re not trying to explain anything. You’re not decoding their twisted logic. You’re not wasting time on their fake apologies or broken promises. And that silence starts to rot them from the inside. They start wondering, obsessing: Why are you not reaching out? Have you moved on? Has someone else taken your place? That silence becomes a mirror, and for the first time, they see the void they created not in you, but in themselves, because you are not there to fill it anymore. You took your energy back, you closed the door, and the hollowness they once projected onto you turns around and eats them alive.
Number 4: Life mirrors their actions
This one isn’t about revenge. It’s not about karma coming to collect in some mysterious or mystical way. This is simply the law of life, the way energy works, the way the world keeps balance. You can’t keep hurting people and not expect it to come back around. Eventually, everything you put into the world starts to find its way back to you. No one escapes the energy they give, I assure you that. The narcissist leaves a trail of destruction wherever they go. They break relationships, betray their friends. You know what they do? They abuse the ones who trust them. For a time, they may seem untouchable, like nothing touches them, that’s what they like to think. They quickly move on, pretending like nothing happened.
They do all sorts of things that project this picture of, “I am fine, I’m okay, I can play the same old games.” They act like the chaos they caused never even existed. They think they can just walk away unscathed, leaving behind a broken version of you. But time has a way of working things out. It is quiet at first, as I was explaining, but it always catches up. The new people in their lives don’t play by the same rules. The charm they once used to lure you in starts to wear off. The lies they told to cover their tracks begin to unravel. The people they try to control begin to see through the mask.
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