Number 4. Their Narcissistic Rage Unleashes
If the narcissist perceives that he or she is threatened or threatened with exposure, he or she will lash out in full-blown narcissistic fury. They will viciously attack, attempting to intimidate or frighten you. This fury is not necessarily physical; it may manifest as vicious verbal assault, threats, or high-level emotional manipulation.
What to do: Don’t respond emotionally. Their anger is all about control, and responding feeds that requirement. If threatened, get away from the situation and seek support or legal means if needed. Remaining calm and in control will infuriate their efforts to control you.
Number 5. They collapse or play the victim
Certain narcissists, when confronted with a consistent no contact, will undergo what is referred to as a “narcissistic collapse.” This refers to the point at which their illusion of grandiosity is destroyed, and they can become the victim, appearing helpless or seeking pity from you or others. They need you to perceive them as vulnerable so that you will feel guilty on their behalf and come crawling back to them.
What to do: Keep in mind that this is only another manipulative strategy. Narcissists are masters of playing the aggressor and victim in turn. Hold your ground on your boundaries and keep their feelings from becoming your issue.
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