It’s like going to war with a narcissist, but it’s usually the only way to get your peace and freedom back. If you’ve ever had to deal with a narcissist, you understand that they don’t leave without a fight. When you establish boundaries, they don’t just fade away quietly they usually unleash a series of behaviors that are intended to reel you back in or assault you for leaving. If you’re considering whether or not to go no contact with a narcissist or have already gone no contact, being aware of what to anticipate can continue to be strong and capable.
These are the six biggest strategies narcissists employ once you’re no contact and how to deal with each of them.
Number 1. They revert to what worked previously
Narcissists need control and when they feel it being taken away from them, they will go back to the behaviors which initially attracted your attention or affection. These might be love-bombing you with compliments, charm, or reassurances that things will get better. They may send you bittersweet messages reminding you of “the good times” and attempting to reassure you that you’re being paranoid about nothing.
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