If you want to outsmart a narcissist, you need to stop believing they are invincible and start thinking like a secret agent. Fighting a narcissist with just emotions only fuels their power, but fighting them with strategy leaves them confused and powerless. The more emotional you become, you know, the stronger their grip, but imagine what would happen if you stopped reacting. Imagine if you simply observed them quietly and carefully gathered information like a spy would. That is exactly the mindset you need to have; that’s exactly how you win.
The topic for this article is really interesting: five steps to defeat a narcissist like a CIA agent. Let me tell you this: this is not about revenge, but it’s about freeing yourself. The most powerful way to escape a narcissist, of course, is not yelling, exposing their actions, or having the final say.
It is by quietly disappearing, fully aware of how they operate, just like the CIA does not scream at their enemies or openly argue with them. They quietly observe, gather intelligence, and then vanish without a trace. They do not engage in conflict; they end the game before their enemy realizes it is over.
Every major nation has a secret intelligence service. These agencies exist to prevent conflict, not start it. Their strength is not in weapons but in silence and secrecy. Their best victories are the ones nobody ever knows about. Approaching a narcissist requires the same quiet, strategic approach. Do not announce your moves; do not react. Instead, emotionally gather information, make your plan, and move silently until the narcissist suddenly realizes the game is already over, and you have won.
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