One of the weirdest behaviors of a narcissist is that they want to have s£x minutes after destroying you. Like, one moment they may be torturing you, and the next moment, they will force you to get physical with them. It does not make any sense, which is why that is the reason a breakup s£x with a narcissist feels less like passion and more like a psychological assault, because it is an assault. You walk away not healed, but hollow and destroyed.
You think, maybe it was a goodbye, maybe it meant something, but deep down, something feels violently off. And of course, that is what it is, because what you experience is not love. It isn’t reconciliation or even lust; it’s domination. It is psychological warfare disguised as intimacy. It’s a ritual of power, a performance of control. For a narcissist, wanting physical intimacy when breaking up with you isn’t a moment of reflection, connection, or guilt; it is the final blow in a war you didn’t sign up for.
Understanding the Narcissist’s Mindset
In this topic, we are diving into one of the darkest truths survivors of narcissistic abuse face: the hidden reason why narcissists are obsessed with breakup S£x. Let’s go deep. When most people go through a rupture in a relationship, there is a period of grief, isn’t there? There is reflection and reconciliation if both people are mature.
Sometimes, there is also. Even in situations where the relationship does not continue, the separation can carry some dignity and some sense of closure. But when you are dealing with a narcissist, none of those rules apply. They do the opposite. Instead of reflecting, they retaliate. Instead of grieving, they gloat. And instead of letting go, they want to possess you one last time, but of course, not with love, with malice.
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