The Aftermath: Confusion and Humiliation
Many narcissists who initiate a breakup s£x have already moved on. They may already be texting someone else, sleeping with their next source of supply, or even planning their new life with a replacement. But that does not stop them from sleeping with you. Why? Because the act isn’t about love or the future, it’s about making you fall even harder when there is nothing left to catch you. It’s the free fall.
It’s about taking something sacred, your vulnerability, body, and your final goodbye, and using it as a tool to humiliate you, to take from you even when they have already discarded you, and there is nothing left to take. They want you to feel ashamed. They want you to wake up next to them and hate yourself, because that self-hate is the final blow they were after all along. You see, for a narcissist, the peak of power is knowing they led you to your emotional decay slowly, deliberately, with a smile.
They engineered the moment so well that you walked into the trap. You lay next to them, you held their hand, and they stood there watching the life drain from your spirit, like a predator licking blood off its paws. It is more than control; it is predatory pleasure. It’s not just about getting laid; it’s about watching you degrade yourself and knowing they didn’t even have to force it. They just pushed the right emotional buttons. They made you crave the very person who was destroying you, and that is what they call victory. That is how they take advantage of your trauma bonding.
You mistake it for closure; they mean it as humiliation. Many survivors of narcissistic abuse walk away from a breakup s£x with a narcissist feeling more confused than ever, because a part of you may think, “Oh, maybe there is still some hope left for me, for us.” Yet, the other part may feel humiliated, destroyed, and devastated, used, abused like a toy, and then thrown away. You may also end up blaming yourself for giving in, but the truth is, you were set up.
You were never going to get closure from someone who didn’t even have a conscience. You were never going to experience healing from someone who saw your pain as entertainment. You were never going to get love from someone who sees affection as a weapon. To the narcissist, that last round of S£x was never about goodbye; it was about erasing your dignity very stealthily.
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