Number 3: Dark Magic and Manipulation
Occult or objects of magic-kind, spell jars, hexes, books of manipulation. When I tell people that narcissists draw dark energy, they think I’m exaggerating. I am not. Where they live has a heavy, creepy atmosphere to it. It’s like air does not circulate; it’s heavy. Energy is not moving, and sometimes it is more than a feeling; it’s more than psychological. That is what they’ve introduced into the room. In my house, I recall that my mother used to tote spell jars and unusual powders filled in clothes, stuff people gave her in the hope of changing my father’s ways.
But to no avail; he worsened, and then she began complaining about everyone else, just like all of them. “Oh, someone has hexed her,” that is what she would exclaim. “Oh, black magic was performed on this family.” But the reality is, narcissists have spiritual filth inside them. They bring it home. They keep things surrounding them that are full of rituals, spells, energies that they don’t even realize, attempting to manipulate results without considering the harm they cause to themselves through their own hands.
And if it’s not literal magic, then it’s symbolic dark means, such as the coveted object, the book The 48 Laws of Power. It rests on their bedside table, not like a sacred text, not to be read, but to justify all acts of violence. All of these laws are a new excuse: “Crush your enemy totally,” “Use selective honesty,” “Court attention at all costs.” They’re not trying to grow; they are discovering how to be more unlovable and unlovable.
Number 4: Private Photos and Videos
Hard drives full of your private photos, videos, and stuff are stored without asking. This is hard to speak about because it’s so intrusive, but I get to see this and hear this every single day. A narcissist will pretend that they love you. They’ll hug you, they’ll video you laughing, smiling, singing, and then they’ll quietly save them all because they’re stockpiling a file cabinet, something which they can use against you the minute that you act poorly.
I’m referring to your intimate moments too your vulnerable selfies, your moments of trust. You know: your body, locked away from you on a hard drive in a box, sometimes even password-protected with a name you’d never think of in a million years. And then, when the relationship begins to fall apart, they suddenly say, “What if I sent your pictures to someone? How would that make you feel?
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