Breaking up with a narcissist is knocking the throne from under an entitled queen. The narcissist has constructed an entire fantasy character from the story that they are royalty or aristocracy and, like an entitled ruler, they feel as though they have to receive more than they give. Thus, if they were draining a great deal from your affection, approval, or even emotional response, your departure is going to be cataclysmic.
These provisions supply narcissist royal identity grist, and in departing, you deprive them of not just their supply but also demolish the fantasy of superiority upon which they’ve built their sense of self. Behind the mask lies a shattered ego. What do you do then? Well, you’ve hopefully ridden off into the sunset and are completely no-contact, but what do you know about the narcissist? Let’s look at seven things that occur when the narcissist understands they’ve lost you.
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