Number 2: They appear entitled.
This can be a good way to spot a narcissist’s red flags. They will treat people they deem as inferior terribly. This will include employees or waitstaff at restaurants when they mess up something. Some narcissists will make a scene if it is not fixed to their liking or it is taking too long. If your date has their order or purchase messed up, it is a good idea to watch how they handle the situation.
Number 3: They continuously turn the conversation around for themselves.
Your date is talking to you, and you begin to notice that they aren’t asking any questions to get to know you. When you start to discuss your current or past life, they seem to stop showing interest in you. A good way to find out if you are dating a narcissist is to track how many times they redirect the conversation away from you and back onto themselves.
A narcissistic date will find a way to make everything about them: their interests, hobbies, childhood, and drama. You will also begin to notice that in these stories, they are perfect and almost heroic. To a narcissist, they do everything perfectly and want to ensure that their date believes the same thing, especially on the first date. They won’t tell stories about anything they messed up at work or at home. It is extremely important to a narcissist that they seem flawless to their date. The key how to spot a narcissist on the first date is watching their body language when you are telling a story.
Narcissists many times have problems controlling their body language and facial expressions. Look for yawning, fidgeting with their hands or other objects, lack of eye contact, and slouching. These signs indicate that they are not interested in what you have to say, but it is almost guaranteed they will change their behavior if you go back to asking about their lives.
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