Complaining is a way of life for them. Through this, they are heard, reassured, and their identity is validated. Since they are never satisfied or pleased with what they have in their lives, they are never happy with anything or anyone. Narcissists want to keep people confused and involved in their chaos, they always believe that others will do things for them by complaining, making them feel superior.
They find satisfaction at the expense of someone else’s unhappiness and shortcomings. Complaining isn’t necessarily bad, but doing so regularly can be toxic in more ways than one. This is because complaining indicates that you are not accepting what is going on in your life.
Number 2: They speak faster and make more eye contact when lying.
One of the most fascinating things that narcissists do to draw their targets to trust them is that they usually make more eye contact when they speak. Imagine someone lying, but they lock their gaze on you, and you will be drawn to narcissists like a magnet by their intense stare at you. It will be no surprise that you’ll fall under their spell, while one of the definite signs that one could not be trusted is focusing on speech patterns.
Narcissists also speak faster than ordinary people; they either say too much or not enough. A narcissist will try to deceive the truth with too many words: adding excessive details to convince other people of what they are saying. Also, in a different situation, when asked to answer questions or provide more information, typically, a narcissist will offer vague or fewer answers than those telling the truth.
It is difficult to distinguish someone from lying, but keep in mind that no matter what happens, even if the world turns upside down, a narcissist will always be a liar, and they can never be trusted. Of course, we can categorize people solely based on this trait; many people simply speak faster and make eye contact. Just make sure you understand the pattern.
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