Number 6: Your boundaries are being disintegrated.
It’s extremely common for people with poor boundaries to get involved with narcissists, you find it difficult to speak up, stand up for yourself, or hold boundaries with this particular person, and when you try to do so are you often criticized, rejected, abandoned, or punished, you’re likely dealing with a narcissist.
As a result of that, you try to minimize the trauma and mayhem that breaks out by giving up on trying to assert your needs. Or maybe because you’ve dissolved into so many feelings of powerlessness, helplessness, and despair, you find yourself picking or pleading for your boundaries to be respected. Discovering that the narcissist has zero empathy for you and won’t comply takes you down into an even deeper place of helplessness.
Number 7: You feel addicted, disjointed, and manic.
Perverse addiction happens with narcissists, this is also known as trauma bonding. Do you feel manic and unable to stop trying to contact our hookup with a narcissist? Even when you know how much you continually get hurt by doing so, we can be horrified by how addicted we are to someone who treats us so terribly.
It just doesn’t make logical sense. It is, of course, very serious when it gets to a stage where we simply can’t talk ourselves out of doing the actions that we know are putting ourselves back into the fire to get burnt again.
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