Number 5: You are mopping up the messes.
Being connected with a narcissist has lots of drama and rough edges and quite frankly means that disasters are always looming. Narcissists usually aren’t good with detail accountability or Sensibility; They fly high seeking narcissistic supply and acclaim with little to no thought for doing the right thing.
If your life is connected with one of these people, it’s usual that you will be paying their fines, sorting out their messes, and dramas, and even lying for them to cover their tracks. It’s like this analogy as you’re watering their back lawn trying to keep it green, yours gets parched and turns brown and dies.
This is how narcissistic strolls and this is what happens to the sensible well-meaning responsible people who narcissists like to recruit into their lives. By walking away from people like this; we can heal and restart our lives with self-responsibility.
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Number 6: Your boundaries are being disintegrated.
It’s extremely common for people with poor boundaries to get involved with narcissists, you find it difficult to speak up, stand up for yourself, or hold boundaries with this particular person, and when you try to do so are you often criticized, rejected, abandoned, or punished, you’re likely dealing with a narcissist.
As a result of that, you try to minimize the trauma and mayhem that breaks out by giving up on trying to assert your needs. Or maybe because you’ve dissolved into so many feelings of powerlessness, helplessness, and despair, you find yourself picking or pleading for your boundaries to be respected. Discovering that the narcissist has zero empathy for you and won’t comply, takes you down into an even deeper place of helplessness.
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