Number 3: “It will get better.”
If you have experienced a narcissistic relationship, which I assume you have, you’re all too aware of the harsh reality: it never truly improves but instead deteriorates further. Through devaluation, discarding, or using you as an emotional punching bag, a narcissist will relentlessly inflict harm without remorse. Even before reaching that point, you may encounter variations of this lie, commonly known as future faking.
A narcissist may offer you everything you desire, such as marriage and children, to keep you ensnared. They create the illusion that your dreams are within reach despite the current turbulence. However, let us face the truth: they will not change, and the situation will not improve.
This manipulation may extend to other scenarios as well, such as a narcissistic boss offering a promotion or raise to manipulate you. The manner in which the lies are presented may vary, but they all serve the same purpose: manipulation tactics employed by narcissists.
Number 4: “I’m the most honest person you’ll ever meet.”
This assertion can be alluring, particularly if you have not encountered someone like this before. It is natural to want to believe someone who boldly proclaims their honesty. However, true honesty does not require grandiose declarations; it speaks for itself.
As you delve deeper into the relationship, you begin to discern the falsehood behind this claim. Even if narcissist avoids blatant lies, they conceal secrets within their web of deception. They have an insatiable need for attention and validation, making it challenging for them to resist distorting the truth. They may conveniently omit crucial information that would be beneficial for you to know or manipulate situations to their advantage.
For instance, in a friendship, a narcissist may hold coveted event tickets but conveniently fail to disclose that they have already given them to someone else, exploiting your eagerness to attend. This act of omission, known as lies of omission, is far from honesty and is frequently employed by narcissists.
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