Final thoughts;
Narcissists feel entitled to treat people the way that they do. You’re here to serve, you are a list of goods and services, and they don’t value you. Again, somebody will come along behind you and do everything you were doing, if not more. I think they always hope for more. Again, this is somebody who can’t be hurt. The best you can do to hurt, to hurt, and to get revenge, are things that need to be done anyway, like I talk about blocking or going and staying no contact, preferably both, and really just heal and learn about these things and move forward.
As unfulfilling as I know these sounds, because even to me sometimes it sounds incredibly unfulfilling, that is the truth. You can’t attempt to teach somebody narcissistic a lesson. They never get attached to you; they get attached to what you provide. Frankly, anybody can do what you did. Anybody can do what I did. We are not special, we are not different, and in the eyes of the narcissist, we’re not valued.
The saying goes that revenge is a dish best served cold. However, when dealing with somebody narcissistic like this, I truly believe the phrase ” revenge is a dish best not served at all. Who cares? They’re going to carry on just like we are. You owe it to yourself to move forward in a positive, healthy way. Don’t waste time trying to hurt somebody.
If you naturally follow what survivors have to do to move forward, you inflict a little fear, a little panic, a little bit of anger that you’re not talking to them, you won’t reach out, you’re moving on with your life. That is honestly the best recourse that we have as far as revenge goes. Know that these feelings are temporary.
It’s part of the grieving process that you’re going to go through, and you will not, more than likely, always feel that way. This is something that’s going to pass. And again, this is the absolute truth about getting revenge on a narcissist.
Read More: 10 Reasons Why Narcissists Want To Harm and Destroy Other People.
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