The Emotional Devastation of Breakup S£x
In the days or hours leading up to the breakup, you will often witness some of the most aggressive, bizarre, and cruel behaviors from a narcissist. It’s like their humanity shuts off. They become cold, sharp, and smug. They will say wild things, look at you, and through you as if you never mattered. They may throw in a silent treatment, stonewall you so cold that it numbs your bones. But that’s not the most painful part of it.
It is what happens after they have emotionally gutted you, when you are on the floor emotionally, when you cannot stop crying, when you feel like your soul is cracking from within. That is when they come close. That is when they touch you. You will feel them press their body against yours, and for a second, you may get confused. You may think, “Oh, is this remorse? Is this regret? Is this a sign they love me after all?” Of course not. It’s a power move.
The Narcissist’s Predatory Pleasure
They do not want to make love; they want to mark their territory. When a narcissist initiates s£x during or after a breakup, it’s, of course, not about reconnection; it’s about reminding you that you’re still theirs. They know you’re emotionally devastated. They know you feel discarded, worthless, or used. Your trauma is their boundary, and that’s exactly when they want you, not to make things right, but to brand you. It’s a territorial ritual, a sick psychological stamp that says, “You may leave, but your body still belongs to me.” It is less about desire and more about control.
They get aroused not because you’re beautiful you are that but because you are broken. They get turned on by the collapse. That’s crazy. The sadistic arousal of seeing you cry, let me say it as it is: a narcissist’s arousal is often wired to your suffering, not always in a physically violent way, but in a deeply sick psychological way.
They thrive on emotional chaos, you know that, especially if they caused it. When they see you cry, shake, or plead, it activates something primal in them, not empathy, not concern, but pleasure. It’s a twisted form of validation. It tells them they still hold the power to make you crumble, and they love that. They love watching you unravel.
They love hearing your voice crack. They love seeing your body collapse into theirs, not because they want you, but because you are too numb to fight it. That is the climax for them, not the orgasm, but the emotional death they just witnessed and, of course, caused.
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