Narcissism 101

10 Ways To Stop Attracting Narcissists

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 Number 1:  Stop being too sensitive.

Don’t be so sensitive! Narcissists love people who are easily hurt and offended by things that don’t matter. It allows them to demonstrate their superiority by defending you or apologizing on behalf of another person who probably didn’t need an apology in the first place. Being vulnerable is a weakness for narcissists; this will allow them to exploit and attack you, and you will be better protected if you cease revealing your innermost thoughts and feelings.

The most excellent approach to disarm narcissists is to conceal your emotions when being criticized or insulted. If someone hurts your feelings, think about why it happened before reacting. If it wasn’t their fault, apologize for being overly sensitive.

 Number 2: Stop giving them what they want.

The simplest way to avoid attracting narcissists is simply refusing to give them what they want, but this can be difficult because we don’t always know what our loved ones want from us or why they act the way they do. If you notice yourself doing something that makes someone else happy and unhappy, take a break from interacting with them. This is to figure out what’s going on beneath the surface of their behavior and make sure your actions don’t serve their needs. They may be a narcissist in your life that you don’t recognize it.

Set limits with narcissistic friends or family members. When they ask you for money, assistance, or anything else, you limit what they expect. If they push past those boundaries, which they will leave their relationship until they learn to respect other people’s boundaries.

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