Number 3: Stop saying yes to everything.
Trying to say yes to everything would almost certainly leave you with no time or energy, leaving you unable to give your all to any of your responsibilities. Because a narcissist constantly seeks attention and praise, saying yes to everything is their cup of tea. When you say yes to everything they say or command you to do, you accept anything narcissists do to control you.
Begin by identifying the things you truly want to say yes to, and consider activities that help you create relationships with important people in your life. Things that match your values offer you joy and refrain from taking on duties that don’t meet those criteria. Know where you stand, no matter how difficult it is to set boundaries. And that can help you develop stronger relationships and free up time to do the things that matter to you.
Number 4: Stop putting others more than yourself.
Trying to please everyone causes anxiety and frustration. You may be concerned that putting yourself first will cause people to disrespect or disappoint you, but most people will not think less of you. Narcissists are self-centered individuals who require constant attention; anyone who can assist them in achieving their goals can be a potential victim. Most of the time, people will not do what you want them to do to you.
Narcissists genuinely believe that they are entitled to whatever they want or need. They also expect others to automatically accommodate their every desire and choice. Never deny your needs and always prioritize yourself who else are you hoping to do that for you?
Number 5: Stop trusting so easily.
Never put your trust in someone who does not believe in himself. Narcissists do not trust themselves because they have no concept of trust and have never felt it. Will you trust someone who does not respect love, or appreciate themselves? Narcissists have either fake or no empathy at all. How can you trust them if they aren’t sorry for making mistakes?
You should trust that narcissists only care about what they want and what they need from you. Know that time will reveal the truth and the true faces of people. Never fully commit to someone until you are sure of it, especially if they appear excellent and charming.
Number 6: Stop thinking negatively.
You attract what you think about, once you start thinking negatively, this might lead to more negativity, including negative people and outcomes. You mostly attract narcissists, for they also possess negativity within themselves. Many narcissists live with negative thoughts because that is the only way they have been taught. Narcissists don’t know how to deal with positivity because they have only seen negativity.
How can you stop narcissists from attracting you? Surround yourself with positive and genuine people. Concentrate on the positive aspects of life and express gratitude. A narcissist is constantly filled with hatred, shame, and anger toward himself and others. Remove yourself from that and your life will become much better.
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