Number 7: Stop comparing yourself to others.
One of the ways that narcissists cope with their damaged self-esteem is by comparing themselves to others, and convincing themselves that they are superior and better. Comparing to others is often the root of many of their behaviors, such as belittling and discounting others.
Narcissists love people who don’t believe in themselves or control them. Thus, Cultivating a strong sense of self-worth is one of the best ways to avoid attracting narcissists. Stop thinking that you’re not good enough, smart enough, or pretty enough to deserve more than you’re getting. Begin by reminding yourself of your worth and projecting that self-assurance outward. Narcissists will observe that you aren’t easily influenced and aren’t a good target.
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Number 8: Stop settling for less than you deserve.
Do you realize how important you are? You understand that you are deserving of respect, dedication, devotion, and love. When we value ourselves and show the world we expect to be treated, we draw people to meet us. You deserve the best, and you don’t earn any manipulation and control from a narcissist.
Know that the right person will respect you and see it as a privilege. The right person will be inspired by your determination to honor your own needs and wants. Stop settling for less because you deserve more. Narcissists will not pay for someone like this for they only give less and ask for more.
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