The goal is to get everyone to trust them, even if they don’t trust anyone else. The best player wins this game.
Narcissists treat you like you’re their enemy because they think everyone else is out to get them and is just like them. This is another reason why they see everyone as a competitor. Their fear makes them dislike and mistrust others, which makes the situation worse. They will hate and dislike you more and more as time goes on, especially if you can achieve what they can’t. Because they’re empty on the inside, they can’t understand how anyone else could be truly happy and content.
They can’t live unless other people agree with them. They find it hard to accept that you’re different from everyone else. They find it hard to believe you’re better than them. So, one of the reasons they hurt you is because they want to show you at your worst. They would do anything to make you mad. They would blame you and point the finger at you to make you feel guilty and ashamed.
Because they mess with your thoughts and feelings, you end up feeling confused and sad. In the end, all the narcissist wants to do is show that they are better than you and that you need to listen to them. Because of the abuse, many people who have been hurt by a narcissist have the same fear as the narcissist. They fear that they can’t do things on their own.
Narcissists are very good at making other people take on their bad traits and feelings, especially those who are close to them. A narcissist can make you feel like you’re being sucked into their world and you can’t leave without becoming whatever the narcissist wants you to be. But actually, that’s not our trait. So, if we work hard and love ourselves, we can get through these problems just fine because we’re not what the narcissist thinks we are.
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