Number 4: You find yourself trying to prove that you’re a good person.
Because the narcissist is regularly accusing you of all the things that they are. And do things such as lacking integrity, love, and care for people, being unfaithful, lying, and making it all about yourself. Why need to use people for your gain and more?
Naturally, you’ll be incensed and try extremely hard to prove and convince them otherwise. This is another deadly hook that narcissists can get you and match with them. If you believe that your integrity, character, well-being, and safety are dependent on what other people think of you, then you’re susceptible to this narcissistic behavior.
Number 5: You are mopping up the messes.
Being connected with a narcissist has lots of drama and rough edges, and quite frankly, means that disasters are always looming. Narcissists usually aren’t good with detail, accountability, or sensitivity; They fly high seeking narcissistic supply and acclaim with little to no thought for doing the right thing.
If your life is connected with one of these people, it’s usual that you will be paying their fines, sorting out their messes, dramas, and even lying for them to cover their tracks. It’s like this analogy, as you’re watering their back lawn trying to keep it green, yours gets parched and turns brown and dies.
This is how narcissists stroll, and this is what happens to the sensible, well-meaning, responsible people who narcissists like to recruit into their lives. By walking away from people like this, we can heal and restart our lives with self-responsibility.
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