Narcissism 101

9 Reasons Why Narcissists Are Addicted To You

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Number 7: They are addicted to you because you don’t complain.

You’re a good listener, and you never argue or raise your voice. You’re calm in understanding, even when they’ve done something wrong. You look the other way when they take credit for your work or blame you for problems that aren’t even yours.

You rarely express any negative emotions, so narcissists feel they can always count on you to be there for them. But eventually, they will start taking advantage of these things, they’ll begin to make unreasonable demands on your time or energy that will drain the life out of you.

Number 8: They are addicted to you because you say yes all the time.

When your partner asks if they can borrow your car or if you’ll stay late at work, or if they can have friends over for dinner, you don’t hesitate before saying yes. Even though deep down, you know that something doesn’t feel right about these requests. But because saying no would upset your partner, you go along with whatever they want.

Narcissists thrive on this kind of energy; it gives them a sense of power, control, and confidence that they don’t get anywhere else. That’s why narcissists are so addicted to you- because they know that you’ll still be there for them no matter what they do or say.

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