One of the first things is maintaining healthy Healthy Relations relationships.
They need people but they do not care how toxic or unhealthy a relationship is, provided that they are the ones in control. So, they will seek to be parents, partners, and friends for the sole purpose of what they can get from these relationships. Narcissists believe others live to make them happy but they have no desire to make anyone happy. It is all about them.
Once they are getting what they want from a relationship that is all that matters. The Narcissist doesn´t care about providing an environment that is healthy, loving, and supportive for all concerned, all they want is the servitude and attention of those in their lives. Apart from that the Narcissist does not care about their relationships being stable, happy, and healthy.
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The second thing is rules or boundaries.
Narcissists feel like such limitations do not apply to them. This also includes the policies of the company they work for or the laws of the land in which they dwell. If the Narcissist can get away with not abiding by any restrictions, they will. In the mind of the Narcissists, rules were made to be broken. So, no matter what boundaries you implement with a Narcissist they will not respect or abide unless you are severe with your consequences.
Otherwise, they will always try to undermine or ignore your demands. That is why it is important to stand firm and be consistent. Never accept their excuses for not respecting any boundary that you have put in place. When it comes to rules and boundaries like everything else, the Narcissist has double standards.
They have rules, they have their boundaries that they want people to abide by, and they are very particular as to how you should treat them, talk to them, etc. but they do not want to accept or respect any boundaries you have. The Narcissist simply does not care about what you want or deserve.
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